Kourtney DeBoer, MAMarriage and Family Therapist Intern, IMF 67592kourtney@narrativetherapysd.com
As a therapist, I am
down-to-earth, compassionate, and understanding. My passion and mission is to
help people improve the quality of their lives and build healthy relationships
that last. I truly believe that psychotherapy can help individuals,
couples, and families build a strong foundation for all kinds of
relationships.
I place great value on providing you and your loved ones with a comfortable and
open environment to share your story. My therapy sessions are relaxed,
collaborative, and empathetic. I use a variety of practical and expressive
methods to assist you while focusing on key issues such as
communication,
conflict resolution, personal growth, self-care, and
coping with stressors or life challenges.
I use a variety to theoretical orientations, such as Cognitive Behavioral
Therapy, Multigenerational Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment
Therapy, Narrative Therapy, and Emotionally Focused Therapy.
I also incorporate mindfulness techniques, because I believe these skills can
help you troubleshoot future problems and continue on your journey to greater
well-being. Because I have training in a variety of theories approaches, I pick
and choose which theoretical orientation will best fit the needs of each
individual client, couple, or family. However, because I also value a
collaborative approach to therapy, I will always share this orientation with
you and seek your input on how we can create the best possible fit for you.
My Journey
I became interested in therapy as an undergraduate student at the University of Laverne, where I majored in Psychology
and minored in Women, Gender, and Sexuality Studies. I was also a member of the
Honors Program and had a part-time job. With so many responsibilities, my
stressors began to mount and became overwhelming, so I sought out the
counseling center on campus. With their help, I developed new skills in stress
management and I took my first steps toward taking control of my personal
well-being. I also discovered a deep appreciation for the process therapy, and
found that I wanted to provide for others in the same way. My career as a
therapist began on the other side of the couch, and I can empathize with how
much courage it takes to meet with your therapist for the first time and how
uncomfortable and challenging it can feel.
After I received my undergraduate degree, I attended the University of San Diego
and enrolled in the Marital and Family Therapy Program. This program focuses on
the ecology of human relationships, meaning how we, as individuals, interact
with the various systems in our lives, from family and friends to our community
and society. As a second-year student, I was accepted into a practicum
placement with the UCSD Department of Family & Preventive Medicine
Collaborative Care Program, where I completed over 1,000 hours of the total
3,000 hours required for clinical licensure and where I attended weekly
supervision trainings. Over 600 of these hours were gained in direct client
contact with individuals, couples, and families in inpatient and outpatient
settings. After I completed my graduate degree, I stayed on to continue my work
with UCSD part-time as a Clinical Social Worker. To date, I have over 1,500
hours of clinical experience, and I have developed interests in areas including
the treatment of women's issues, anxiety and depression, trauma and survivor
healing, perinatal mood and anxiety disorders, LGBT affirmative therapy,
couples and sex therapy, and helping military families cope with deployment,
relocation, and reunification.
I have always dreamed of working in a private practice setting, and
this dream has finally been realized. I now work part-time in a private
practice setting centrally located in the heart of Mission
Valley in San Diego. I truly love my work, and I would
love to share my passion for therapy, personal growth, and well-being with you
and your loved ones.
I am a Marital and Family Therapy Registered Intern (IMF #67592) working toward
state licensure.
Additional Training
I have received additional training in the screening and treatment of Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorders.
California Emergency Management Agency (CALEMA) Certified Crisis Intervention Counselor
and Advocate. This 60-hour training course focuses on prevention and
intervention in the areas of domestic violence and sexual assault.
Professional Activities and Memberships
Annual Stand
Down
Center for Community Solutions SART
Volunteer
Postpartum Health Alliance Warmline Support and
Outreach & Education Volunteer
American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy
California
Association of Marital and Family Therapists
Call (619) 261-4221 or email me at kourtney@narrativetherapysd.com to schedule an appointment for a counseling session.
Employed and Supervised by Erin Falvey, Ph.D MFT 45322